I believe our body posture has a huge impact on our
mood and how were interpret what is going on in our daily lives. Our positive
or negative stance will ultimately determine the way we perceive information
from the world around us. My own body posture has had a huge effect on my
attitude and persona. A song that constantly plays through my mind until my
subconscious brain believes it to be true, is a song from my childhood sung by
Val Doonican called “Walk Tall”.
“Walk tall, walk straight and look the world right in
the eye. That’s what my mama told me when I was about knee high. She said son
be a proud man and hold your head up high. Walk tall, walk straight and look
the world right in the eye”.
Whenever I stooped and hid my face, whenever I dropped
my glaze and tried to get lost in the crowd, good old Val starts singing to me
from his famous rocking chair. I realised that gravity wasn’t pulling me down,
it was my lazy demeanour that was too comfortable and was creating the same
effect on my mood.
Next time you read a book try to be mindful of your
posture. Read a section hunched over the pages and then again with your head up
and shoulders back. Although the words are the same it’s amazing how you will
interpret the text in a different way. You will change your task from a chore
to a pleasure and register the content more easily.
Now try the same thing when you talk to other people.
Allow your back to straighten and forehead to lift. Pull your shoulders back
and smile. There are so many books written on body language and posture, yet we
all fail to adopt these techniques in our everyday life. Even when you talk to
people on the telephone, your posture determines your tone and how others
receive your message.
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